Navigating life decisions
Navigating life decisions
Migration is often described as a single life-changing decision. Yet, for many women, migration is one decision among many, closely intertwined with questions about work, family, community, and personal responsibility – requiring difficult considerations and trade-offs.
For many, migration is driven by pragmatic considerations. Women leave their homes in pursuit of education, professional opportunities, or economic security. Some migrate to support family members from afar, earning money abroad to create better prospects for their loved ones at home, often at considerable personal cost for themselves. For some, migration is also a way of claiming greater autonomy: a chance to step beyond restrictive social expectations, discrimination, or forms of control that limit their choices. These motivations frequently overlap. For women fleeing war, persecution, or political instability, employment may not be the primary reason for migration, yet finding work soon becomes an essential part of building a new life and establishing a sense of stability in a new place.
Making strategic decisions and adapting to changing circumstances does not end with the act of migration itself. It remains an ongoing process. Women navigate shifting migration regimes and political environments, pursue new careers, move on or return, reunite with family or start new families, build and end relationships, challenge injustice despite vulnerable circumstances, and take on responsibilities within their communities. Their stories reveal migration not as a single decision, but as a continuous process of negotiation, resilience, and reinvention.
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Video Interviews: “Voices on 60 German-Turkish years” as part of the exhibition “We are from here: Turkish-German life in 1990. Photographs by Ergun Çağatay”
Institution: Ruhr Museum
Sensitive Stories – Archive or Publish
Exhibition, Oral History
Adults, Community Organisations, Youth
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Writing herself back into past
In exile, Modrzewska returned repeatedly to her past through autobiographical writing and visits to Lublin. Writing became a way o …
When home becomes foreign
The antisemitic campaign of 1968 transformed Modrzewska’s relationship with Poland and ultimately forced her to leave the country …
A diary that was not allowed to speak in full
Written in 1947, Modrzewska’s wartime diary offers an early account of hiding, survival and everyday life under occupation. Its la …
Resisting in everyday life
During the occupation, Modrzewska survived under an assumed Polish identity while working, moving between places of refuge and par …
Between Homes, Languages and Identities
Krystyna Modrzewska grew up in an assimilated Jewish family in pre-war Poland and later reflected deeply on her Jewish background, …

No single stories
Aiko and Noi explain how different artistic approaches are used to make visible the lived realities of people affected by human tr …
An Interesting Opportunity
One day, Ayşe’s husband came to her and told her that she had received a job offer to work as a teacher. This made her think…
A Foreign Student in Ghent
Although Ayşe initially did not want to leave her career and studies in Turkey behind, she eventually took the step and moved to G …
Family Reunification: Three Years of Separation
For Haeng-Ja Fischer her children were her driving force – for them she worked hard. Family reunification was not easy at that tim …
The Fragility That Began in Italy and the Return to Romania. Lack of Legal or Partial Contracts
This section talks about the long-term implications of lack of legal or partial contracts in Italy. If migrant care workers work l …
When the Family Decides the Elder Has Lived Long Enough
About care and connection and the emotional toll of migration. Conflicts between badanti and relatives of Italian elderly appear w …
The migration of Romanian women in the 1990s and early 2000s
This section describes the Romanian economy after the fall of Ceaușescu regime. After being made redundant from the Post Office, L …
Care Work with the Elderly: about Dignity and Joy
Liliana says that while taking care of the elderly what matters most is to laugh with them, to regain their human dignity, to make …
Settling In Through Support and Personal Agency
Estre describes how the support of her employer, social networks, and her own openness helped her settle into life in Germany. At …
Decision and Departure: Migration in Times of Crisis
Against the backdrop of the economic crisis in Greece, Maria Papadopoulou faces a fundamental decision after completing her studie …
Leaving Spain: Crisis and Decision
Ceferina García García grows up in Asturias, where economic hardship and uncertainty shape everyday life. When her husband falls i …
Global Academic Career to Political Pressure and Forced Migration
Çağla Diner grows up in Turkey, where she completes her entire school and academic education. After finishing her studies, she mov …
Arriving between two worlds
Over the years, she builds a life for herself in Germany and finds her place in society. At the same time, she has maintained her …
Mothering across borders; fifteen days in – fifteen days out
The interviewee describes how the economic consequences of the post-war transition and her husband’s forced early retirement pushe …
Childhood, Family and Decision to move to the US
Silvia Henao reflects on a challenging childhood in Colombia marked by family instability and a sense of being unwanted, which fue …
Migration biography overview
Silvia Henao recounts her international trajectory from her birth in Bogotá to her eventual migration to Antwerp, Belgium, to rais …
Origins and departure
Neriman Yılmaz Alp grows up in a village in Turkey. Her life is shaped by family structures, communal work, and rural living condi …










